Title: He’s just not that into you
the no excuses truth to understanding guys
From a writer and a consultant of Sex and the City
"Six wrods to change your life forever…This book should be on every single woman’t nightstand!" Oprah Winfrey
He’s not into you if he’s:
- Not asking you out
- Just too insanely busy to pick up the phone
- Doesn’t like the words ‘Relationship’ or ‘Boyfriend
What you should have learned in the book:
- An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afriad of "ruining the friendship"
- Don’t get tricked into asking him out. if he likes you, he’ll do the asking
- Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do
- "Busy is another word for "asshole". "Asshole is another word for the guy you’re dating
- You deserve a fucking phone call
An example in the book which i totally love
The "But can i at least yell at him" excuse?
Dear Greg,
I was dating a guy seriously for 3 months when he suddenly disappeared. I didn’t hear from him for days. I was worried, so I called his best friend and he told me that my boyfriend got back together with his old girlfriend and moved in with her. I get that he’s just not that into me, but don’t I get the right to find out how he could do that to me? Don’t i get the right to not let him get away with it?
This is what Greg answered. He’s the writer anyway…
Dear Just Walk Away,
Sure. Bet guess what. He knows you’re going to be pissed. He’s a colossal asshole, not an idiot. He played the whole thing out in his head. That’s why he just disappeared. What he doesn’t know is how quickly you can get over him and his bad behavior. You’ll show him that by never talking to him, or his friends, ever again.
P.S: And he’s not getting away with anything. Everywhere he goes, he’s still the same asshole!
I so love this book. Go get one yourself! It’s full of great advice as well as a good laugh….:)